in life most of us don't know what we want most of the time. and so, when we keep getting what we want-as we often do-we don't recognize it. and then we say something is good or something is bad. no, it's not it's just in accordance with the complexities of our heart's desires. sooner we understand that we create our own destinies, from moment to greater moments, the more we can use our personal power purposefully.